Why everyone you know has read “The Artist’s Way”—and 5 things you never knew about the author

February 03, 2019 at 10:09AM by CWC “Have you read The Artist’s Way? You have to. You have to.” I can’t count how many times I’ve heard this throughout my life. The first time was in my mid-20s, from a co-worker at a magazine who talked about it all the time. The other thing she talked constantly about: her church. And Jesus. Nothing wrong with that—but in a work setting? That’s unusual, even for the Bible belt. (Texan here.) Her fervency, paired with the fact that “way” was in the title, led me to assume the 1992 book by Julia Cameron was written solely for devout (and creative) Christians. So I skipped it, for years, even as people repeated the same “have you read it” refrain. Photo: Penguin Group When I finally gave the The Artist’s Way a chance, more than a decade later, it (shockingly) lived up to the hype. It was like therapy and a brain reboot and a writer’s retreat, all in one very structured, prescriptive package. Short version: The book takes you through a 12-week program of journaling exercises and other specific “assignments,” including the hallmark of her system: daily “morning pages”—where you write three pages by hand the minute you wake up, to clear out the mental cobwebs and get your creativity flowing—and weekly “artist’s dates” that you have to go on by yourself. If this is all sounding familiar to you, it’s because you probably have at least two friends who have read the

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Lingerie that’ll make you feel like a grown adult—for under $100

February 03, 2019 at 08:30AM by CWC I’m on the cusp of my 28th birthday (i.e. prime Saturn return time), and I simultaneously feel as old as Luke Skywalker in the most recent Star Wars films and like I need to be carried around like a baby everywhere á la those Ariana Grande rumors. A recent makeover of my underwear drawer, though, has done wonders for helping me feel more adult. Wearing nice lingerie just feels so grown-up. Do you know another thing that feels grown up? Being fiscally responsible. So none of the pieces below cost more than $100. And, obviously, they’re all pretty and sexy and will make you feel like a woman who has got her sh*t together—even if, like most of us, you’re still trying to figure things out. Call it role play. Bluebella Etienne Bodysuit, $64 Photo: Bluebella My favorite part about this bodysuit is that you could take a cue from Rihanna or Bella Hadid and totally wear it outside the bedroom with a skirt or high-waisted pants. Savage x Fenty Hearts Unlined Bra, $49 and Open-Back Hearts Hipster, $30 Photo: Savage x Fenty When selecting the image to use for this lingerie, I was torn between showing the heart appliques on the bra or the strappy back of the underwear. That is to say, this set looks amazing from all angles. And it comes in black should bright colors not be your thing. Only Hearts Coucou Lola Tie Front Bralette, $48 and Coucou

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This bonkers food diary from the star of “High Maintenance” is peak wellness—and I love it

February 03, 2019 at 04:30AM by CWC If you’ve ever watched HBO’s High Maintenance, you know that the adventures of a weed delivery guy make for the perfect vehicle for peeking into people’s lives. That, combined with the show’s is-this-actually-a-documentary level of dialogue and its ability to nail the tiniest everyday details, makes it the smartest (and most pleasurable) binge-watch around. If you don’t already know about High Maintenance, then you should probably avoid me at parties. Because I might just evangelize it to you at a level that’ll make you subtly start backing away from me. (Yeah, I get social cues. But I can’t stop.) So I admit it: I love High Maintenance. I also love food diaries, where people disclose all the places they eat and what they order—or even better, what they cook. (Funny how food diarists have so much time to go to farmers’ markets!) The better their lives are, the more hurts-so-good envy I feel. It’s basically schadenfreude in reverse. And now, be still my heart: these two things that I love have combined into what has to be the most wellness-y (and Brooklyn-y) Grub Street Diet of all time, from High Maintenance star and co-creator Ben Sinclair. Let’s investigate. Is there a moringa shout-out? As in, the super-nutritious green that Well+Good ID’ed as a trend back in 2018? You know it. “An African man told me about moringa a few years ago while I was filming man-on-the-street segments for the Tribeca Film Fest. He made me guess his

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Why this new moon is the perfect time to embrace your inner weirdo

February 03, 2019 at 04:00AM by CWC Each new moon is the chance to start over and set new intentions—or, hey, go crazy and invite your nearest and dearest over for a women’s circle to make it more social. And this month, the cosmos supports serious “you do you” energy—it’s all about being authentic, even eccentric, says astrologer Jennifer Racioppi.  Monday, February 4 The new moon in Aquarius, the second new moon of 2019, perfects at 4:01 p.m. Eastern. New moons begin new chapters; and, actions taken when the luminaries (the sun and the moon) conjoin have both short-term and long-term implications. With this current new moon happening at 15 degrees of Aquarius, alongside Mercury, now’s the time to own your authenticity and eccentricity. Aquarius, a fixed air sign, encourages you to lead via originality. It asks you to decide for yourself what truths you wish to subscribe to, and let the rest go. This new moon initiates new beginnings that stem from the deepest place within your heart. Meanwhile, Saturn the planet of discipline, traveling very close to Pluto (for the next two years) takes no prisoners. Meaning, the cosmic dance not only commands you to honor your truth, no matter what, but it also doesn’t leave room for lack of compliance with the directives of your soul. Add to the mix that Mars, the planet of action, conjoins both Eris, which represents feminine discord, and Uranus, the ruler of Aquarius, and it’s safe to say that this new moon initiates

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