Restless legs keeping you up at night? These home remedies may help bring some relief

May 06, 2019 at 04:00PM by CWC “Restless legs” may sound like a clever name for a running group, but it’s actually a real medical condition that’s anything but cute. It’s marked by tingling, aching, or creepy crawly sensations in the legs (and sometimes arms), and as if that weren’t bad enough, there’s not always a reliable treatment. “Restless legs syndrome is a condition that causes an uncontrollable urge to move your legs, usually because of an uncomfortable sensation. Moving eases the unpleasant feeling temporarily,” explains Christopher Cooke, MD, an orthopedic surgeon and sports medicine specialist at the Detroit Medical Center. “It typically happens in the evening or nighttime hours when you’re sitting or lying down, therefore making it difficult to sleep.” He says restless legs sufferers (who are more often women than men) also commonly experience fatigue, depression, and irritability because of the sleep loss they experience from RLS. Are there any home remedies for restless legs? Here’s the thing: Doctors don’t know exactly what brings on restless legs, although genetics may play a role. Dr. Cooke says the condition is more common among people with low iron levels, as well as conditions like kidney failure, Parkinson’s disease, diabetes mellitus, and rheumatoid arthritis. It can also crop up during pregnancy, or with the use of some prescription drugs, like antidepressants and antihistamines. The various (and mostly unknown) causes makes restless legs syndrome difficult to treat. If it’s triggered by a specific situation like the ones listed above, symptoms may

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How to preserve a friendship when your bestie’s baby makes you feel like the third wheel

May 06, 2019 at 03:00PM by CWC Seemingly in the blink of an eye, hanging out at the hippest bars or rooftops or wellness retreats gives way to baby showers, canceled plans due to flaky babysitters, and backyard gatherings with bouncy castles. I’m a childless lady in her mid-thirties, yet since most of my best friends have children, I’m with little kids a whole bunch. I do love the kiddos, but they’re part of a world that doesn’t feel like my own. I don’t plan on having kids (and I’m not alone in this decision), and I sometimes worry that line I’m drawing in the sand will put an ocean between me and my friends, who are like my family and are also parents. Will we end up with too few things in common? Will the lifestyle choices force us to grow apart? Not necessarily, say experts, who have tips for maintaining friendships when not everyone’s a parent. Shifting priorities don’t ruin friendships—lack of communication does If you and your friend(s) with kids had a rock-solid foundation before babies came into the picture, there’s a really good chance you’ll stay close. But like with any good relationship, you have to channel your inner Tim Gunn and make it work. “When there’s a will, there’s a way. With a little love and some direct communication, it’s totally possible to carry our friendships with us through different phases of our lives,” says psychotherapist Rena Staub Fisher, LCSW. This life-phase disparity supports a

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The sneaky tweak that immediately makes your booty workout way more effective

May 06, 2019 at 12:56PM by CWC I’m practically religious about doing a butt workout at home on the mat in my living room. Almost daily, I strap on a pair of ankle weights and follow along as a trainer streams instructions through my television. One of my most recent workouts left me feeling the burn more than ever before because of a sneaky little tweak in my foot placement. According to modelFIT trainer Abbey Woodfin of modelFIT Steaming, paying attention to your foot placement increases effectiveness. Not necessarily because of how it affects your butt directly, but because of how it affects your legs, which in turn grants a perkier behind. “For example, when you’re on the mat and you’re doing a leg curl (straight leg then curl into a 90-degree angle), having the heel flexed will help activate the hamstrings, as well as fire up that booty. Then when you keep the 90-degree angle, point the toe, and pulse at then end, this works that part of your bum where your hamstring and booty meet,” she says. “It’s basically an instant booty lift. And as a bonus, that will also activate your inner thigh.” Basically, she wants people to know when you’re told to have your heel flexed versus your toe pointed during class, your trainer isn’t just being controlling. “It’s because it helps work different parts of your bum and thighs, giving you a more comprehensive workout,” Woodfin explains. “The foot placement will change where you feel

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Dear ‘Game of Thrones’: Sexual assault is not a rite of passage for women

May 06, 2019 at 12:23PM by CWC [Editor’s note: Spoilers ahead for season 8, episode 4 of Game of Thrones.] Last night while watching Game of Thrones, one particular moment almost sent me into a rage blackout. No, it wasn’t when Arya rejected Gendry’s marriage proposal (I actually cheered at that one). It was when Sansa had a heart-to-heart with her former protector, Sandor “The Hound” Clegane. The two characters haven’t seen each other since the end of season two, and the Hound says that he’s heard about what’s happened to his “little bird” since (the death of her parents and two of her brothers; two forced marriages, including one that involved brutal sexual assault and degradation; manipulation and repeated harassment by another powerful man, etc.). He tells Sansa that if she had left King’s Landing with him all of those years ago, she wouldn’t have experienced any of the misery she has been put through in the six seasons since. In reply, Sansa tenderly places her hand over The Hound’s and says, “Without Littlefinger and Ramsay and the rest, I would’ve stayed a little bird all my life.” This might seem like an innocuous statement; Sansa is objectively a different person than she was at the beginning of the show, when we knew her as young, naive teen heading down to the capital with fantasies of a royal wedding (her own) dancing in her head. But the subtext beneath it—that she was weak before, and that surviving countless instances

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How to tell you’re really in love with your S.O. (and it’s not just hormones playing you)

May 06, 2019 at 12:00PM by CWC Hopeless romantics and helicopter parents who just want to see you settled and married have a stock answer to “how do you know you love someone?” “When you know, you know,” they say. Except, as a rom-com-loving person whose personality skews to the obsessive, I assure there are times when you simply just don’t know. For instance, is it love if you’re willing to go to their great aunt’s memorial service? What if you have a secret 300-pin-rich Pinterest board dedicated to your future—is that love? Suffice it to say many of us do a lot of idealizing (in and out of partnerships) before we can know whether our feelings are real, and in many cases, the romanticization can cloud what’s actually happening. This confusion is especially rife when you’re in the early throes of a blossoming relationship, and you know, intellectually at least, that what’s at play could simply be cuddle hormones and the honeymoon phase. As the philosopher Taylor Alison Swift posited in simpler, pre-“Me!” times, “So it’s gonna be forever, or it’s gonna go down in flames.” And though it could still go down in flames no matter what, rounded up below are a few guidelines to help inform whether your feelings are the real deal and you’re likely in love. Check out 8 expert-approved signs that answer the age-old question: How do you know you love someone? Photo: Getty Images/Nikita Vasylchenko/EyeEm 1. You want your partner to connect with your

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The derm-approved plan to ditch “strawberry legs” by summer

May 06, 2019 at 11:56AM by CWC There have been times in my life when I look down at my legs (which are rarely bare, FWIW) and notice that the pores look darker than usual. I’ve always chalked it up to just having larger-than-average hair follicles (cool), but never gave it much of a thought besides just thinking: ugh. Then, I came across the term “strawberry legs” and felt extremely seen. Much to my surprise, strawberry legs are not only super common, they’re also something you can easily deal with. “This happens when the skin of the legs has darker dots in a follicular distribution, so they look like strawberries,” says Purvisha Patel, MD, a board-certified dermatologist and founder of Visha Skincare. “There may also be swelling of the skin and the hair follicles can look slightly indented or raised like the surface of a strawberry.” Board-certified dermatologist Tobechi Ebede, MD, adds that “the darker dots represent hair follicles or enlarged pores that contain a mixture of oil, bacteria, and dead skin or hair trapped in them.” Know that it’s completely normal. “As mammals, we’re covered in hair follicles and pores, and this appearance can stem from any process that increases inflammation of the hair follicle,” says Dr. Patel. “It could be from not exfoliating, so the pores get blocked with oil and debris, shaving with a dull razor, or not moisturizing skin can create irritation.” The different conditions get categorized a bit differently. “If it’s hair follicles mixed with

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Why two 20-minute HIIT sessions per week is plenty

May 06, 2019 at 11:06AM by CWC When it comes to fitness, it’s easy to fall into the more is more mentality. Ten push-ups is better than five, 26.2 miles is more impressive than 10K, and—yeah—that gal doing the splits in your hot yoga class makes you want to do the splits, too. Now that we’re living in the era of cortisol conscious workouts, gym-goers are conscious of how their sweat sessions affect their stress levels—including the bodily effects of a HIIT workout routine. Cult on-demand fitness empire Les Mills just advised its digital trainees to cut weekly high-intensity interval training down to two sessions of 20 minutes. Why? Any more and your body simply doesn’t have ample time to reset from fight or flight mode. “We found their recovery was compromised and it was causing problems such as injuries, mood swings, fatigue and disrupted sleep,” Bryce Hastings, head of research for gym Les Mills told The Sun. And fam, this is a big deal coming from the brand that basically specializes in workouts that get your heart racing faster than you can say “gains.” Fortunately, chill spinoffs of the beloved exercise style abound. High-intensity, low-impact (HILIT) workouts are on the rise, as well as cardio weightlifting and low-intensity steady state cardio (LISS) to keep your ticker closer to cruise control. “Cortisol is not particularly a ‘bad’ hormone, it’s just that when it remains consistently high, then it’s sending a stress signal,” says Maillard Howell, owner of Crossfit Prospect Heights in Brooklyn.

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