I love the Oscars, but why do we seek approval from total strangers?

January 23, 2019 at 01:14PM by CWC When the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences announces the Oscar nominees, the Twitterverse responds like clockwork with equal parts criticism and congratulation, pecked out as pithy 280-character commentary. This year, the Academy snubbed Timothée Chalamet for his role in Beautiful Boy. (Twitter is sad.) Black Panther made history as the first film in the superhero genre to be nominated for the best picture category. (Most people are psyched.) Lady Gaga is nominated for best actress in a leading role. (And, of course, the people of the Internet have feelings about it.) We’ll have to wait until February 24 to see how it unfolds, but all the chatter surrounding the big show raises the question: Why put so much weight on the end of a sentence that begins “And the award goes to…”? And why do 33 million people  tune in to watch the Academy validate—or veto—their box-office heroes? The pass-the-popcorn version of public approval fulfills a basic human need, says Jennifer Guttman, PsyD, the author of A Path to Sustainable Life Satisfaction. “We crave validation because as social beings we feel comfort in a ‘group think’ mentality,” she says. “It’s reassuring to believe that other people think the way we do because it gives us a feeling that we’re ‘right’ about our choices and behaviors.” The only thing more fun than declaring your undying love for Bradley Cooper is having millions of people agree that he’s a total dreamboat, right? “Award shows like the Oscars are exciting and entertaining because they reinforce our belief that people

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Found: The lazy girl’s solution for dealing with curly third-day hair

January 23, 2019 at 12:12PM by CWC   To me, curly hair is a blessing and a curse. Yes, on a good day I feel like Cher, but on a bad day, not so much. Part of the problem is that I’m lazy and I haven’t been able to find a solution to second-, third-, or let’s be real, fourth-day, hair that doesn’t involve rinsing my strands with water. It’s these mornings when I roll out of bed to hop in the shower that I wish to myself that my third-day hair dilemma could be a greasy scalp, for which dry shampoo  is an ace up the sleeve. Instead, I’m left with flat, lifeless curls that need some oomph. Enter: Resetting spray. On day 1, I usually wear my hair down, but my go-to move at night is to wrap a scrunchie around my 3A curls before bed. Usually, this stretches them out enough that on day 2, I either have to wear it up or wet it down since water is the easiest way to reset my curls. In the name of hitting snooze for 20 extra minutes of ZZZs, I went on a search for an alternative and came across a few very enthusiastic reviews from friends about Bumble & Bumble Bb. Curl Re-Style Primer ($28). Here’s how it works: The products that are typically used to style curly hair can contain drying ingredients like alcohols. In part, that can mess with curls, making them more prone to frizz as the

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Stressed Out? This Romantic Trick Can Help Calm You Down

January 23, 2019 at 11:25AM Here’s how to get started. Continue Reading… Author Caroline Muggia | Life by Daily Burn Selected by iversue We all live with some amount of stress in our lives, and in so many cases it’s hard to eliminate, especially when the most common stressors for Americans include money, work, political climate, violence, crime, and relationships—BIG things. While the list goes on, we have some excellent news: Thinking about the person closest to you may be what you need to help decrease stress. A new study led by psychologists from the University of Arizona and published in the journal Psychophysiology found that just thinking about your partner was as effective in lowering blood pressure as being in the physical presence of your partner. We can’t always be with our partners when we need them the most, so if just the thought of them can help relieve some in-the-moment tension, we’re excited. Participants in the study were all in committed relationships and were asked to dip their feet into 3 inches of cold water. Some of them had their partner sitting in the room with them while others were asked to think about their partner or to think about their day. The people who had their partner in the same space or thought of them had a lower blood pressure response as compared to those who just thought about their day. While this study points out that past research has linked both thinking about and being with

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What an MD wants you to know about taking bee pollen for allergies

January 23, 2019 at 11:17AM by CWC There’s a buzzy new ingredient that’s got the wellness world’s attention as of late: bee pollen. You’ve probably seen the crunchy nuggets as the latest garnish atop a smoothie bowl, but it has more purpose than looking good on the ‘gram. In particular, there’s been talk about taking bee pollen for allergies. But before we get to that, let’s step back and discuss what, exactly, bee pollen is in the first place. Basically, bee pollen feeds a hive (and it’s a superfood for humans, too). To create it, bees collect flower pollen and pack it into small granules using saliva and a bit of honey. It’s chock full of nutrients like protein, amino acids, and a litany of vitamins—and it’s also believed to have powerful anti-inflammatory properties. Dr. Moday likens the effect of bee pollen to allergy shots, which create resistance against an allergen so the body reacts less when it’s around. Its ability to fight inflammation is, in part, why people eat bee pollen for allergies. (It goes without saying, but we’re going to say it anyway: You should always consult a doctor before taking anything to treat a medical condition.) That’s because one way to manage allergies—if you have mild symptoms and want to avoid over-the-counter meds because they don’t work or have bothersome side effects—is to help your body build up a tolerance through exposure to the culprit. “The idea is that when you ingest pollen on a daily basis, it’ll

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The best high-cut sports bras for spinning class to keep you supported

January 23, 2019 at 10:30AM by CWC Between the rhythm, the choreography, and the (hard AF) isolations, there’s a whole lot to think about during spin class. One thought that shouldn’t have to occupy your brain, though? Flashing your top half to the entire room while you’re busy trying to tap it back to the beat. As a front row fixture who is constantly worried about my girls falling out of my top, I can confirm firsthand that a spin class friendly sports bra has to go above and beyond the regular call of duty. In addition to keeping my melons from bouncing up, down, and all-around while I move to the music, it also needs to keep them secured while I ride. This is something the instructors at SoulCycle are all too familiar with, especially considering that they’re spinning on a platform in front a room full of riders. To solve the problem, the mega-spin studio partnered with Lululemon to create a line of seriously functional workout wear that includes a sports bra that covers the entire chest. To develop the line, Lululemon invited a group of SoulCycle instructors to their HQ in Vancouver to test out the merch, and give feedback on exactly what they’d need to do a series of middle-bar pushups in peace. “I was mostly concerned not just with comfort—less pull on the straps but not having to compromise the support—but also for me feeling confident while teaching means not flashing my class with cleavage from the

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