By Tony Masikonde | Monday, Aug 14th 2017 at 09:46 Share this story: The other day a lady friend of mine ‘accosted’ me, wanting to know why men do not always tell their partners or girlfriends everything. I could have dismissed that off hand, but I changed my mind. Knowing that it has been stated elsewhere that if sex – and good sex while we are at it – is the glue that holds a relationship together, then open communication is the lubricant to that lovemaking. But open communication is not to say that the man becomes a chatter box or a parrot in his own house. We are patriots not parrots. So why ignore a woman who, starved of information from her partner, was only looking for information in order to know how to deal with the situation? Get your note books out. This is the kind of revelation that only comes once in a blue moon. Men are constantly hustling and struggling to provide for you and the young ones. Hustling is not 800 metres race, where after a minute and a half you can pick out an obvious winner. What do you love about Kenya? Some of the hustles we undertake pay dividend years down the line. So if I tell you I was in town hustling and I have not bought you a new phone of late, do not think hustling is putting water in a bucket such that at the end of the activity, you