Taking my husband’s last name was a wild bureaucratic marathon that I wish I never ran

October 03, 2018 at 03:00AM Let me get this out of the way up front: I adore my husband. We’ve been happily married for two years, and he’s the best thing that ever happened to me. But making his last name legally my own? That’s hands down one of the worst decisions I’ve ever made. When we were dating and even engaged, I thought that sharing the same last name would make me feel like we were more of a family. I thought the outward-facing world would regard us as more of a united front if our house appeared more, well, united. Not in a Game of Thrones House Stark kind of way, but just in the sense that I couldn’t wait to be this man’s family, and I wanted the whole world to know it. The pressure was entirely of my own making—my husband never cared whether I took his name, and he respected my choice to add to my career’s worth of editorial work under my maiden name (I still use my maiden name as a byline). Still, on the day we went to City Hall in New York City to get our marriage license, it took me by surprise when the clerk informed me that if I wanted to eventually take his name, even a year or so down the road, I’d have to decide right then and there, on the spot. I balked at the suggestion. Surely she was wrong. Not everyone who takes a married name has

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With billion-dollar evaluations and million-dollar investments, streetwear is the boutique fitness of fashion

October 03, 2018 at 02:57AM Athleisure might have started out as a trend, but it’s now the fastest-growing category in fashion. And its staying power is trickling down to another style of casual dressing: streetwear. At this point, the two words are basically synonyms to most people, because we use them interchangeably to describe a more everyday form of fashion than what you’d find on the runways. One that’s tinged with athletic undertone or overtones, if you will. Streetwear is as much a community, however, as it is a style category. In a lot of ways, it feels like the boutique fitness of fashion. Not only have brands such as Supreme, Kith, and Off-White amassed cult followings and gained reputations for successfully disrupting the traditional fashion model. They’ve also attracted the attention of major investors. Supreme received a $1 billion valuation last fall, making it the Peloton of streetwear startups. The estimate seems to answer the question: Are streetwear brands worth it? In a word: yes. In fact, investors have seeded about $180 million to streetwear startups in the last few years, according to Fashionista. And just like the boutique fitness industry, which expanding at an exponential rate, this influx of interest and capital has some already wondering if it’s creating a bubble around streetwear brands. And if so, will it burst? The resale market for coveted items like Off-White sneakers can see them going for double (often more) of the suggested market value at online consignment. Fashionista notes that sites focused on women’s

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The big questions to ask yourself at 25, 30, 35, and 40

October 03, 2018 at 02:30AM Every so often, says Well+Good Council member Kelsey Patel, it’s time to slow down and ask yourself a few important questions—about work, love, career, and everything else that adds up to your big, beautiful life. Here, the spiritual empowerment coach shares some of the questions to ask at four milestone ages: 25, 30, 35, and 40. Each of us has a past that includes choices, places, people, pain, joy, and many other things between. Now that I’m 37, I’ve been thinking about my own past and the choices I’ve made—how everything leads to the next place and the next moment. No matter how big or small a decision seems to be, our life is one long thread of these connected choices. In reflecting on my past, I started to realize how beautiful it can be to look at your life at any age and start asking some deeper questions about where you are now, where you want to go, and what actually matters most to you at these different stages of life. Reflecting on these has helped me grow, and I’m sharing them in hopes that they’ll do the same for you. Here are the big, important questions to ask yourself at 25, 30, 35, and 40. Photo: Lucas Ottone/Stocksy Age 25 At 25, so many new things and realizations start to come forward. You’re likely living on your own, getting by with a tight budget, splitting the bill down to the exact dollar, possibly hating

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Is This Your #Brexitplan?Letting companies like this abuse the people who still believe in our Services,our Products,our Culture?Letting a company offering rip-off price well-known in/outside of our industry to be the officers of Tax Return? Letting them to be the face of the UK?

Is This Your #Brexitplan?Letting companies like this abuse the people who still believe in our Services,our Products,our Culture?Letting a company offering rip-off price well-known in/outside of our industry to be the officers of Tax Return? Letting them to be the face of the UK? — AI👩🏻‍💻Sue (@iversue) October 3, 2018 To read more, click above t.co (twitter) link October 03, 2018 at 02:37AM

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